Meet Deondra

Deondra A. Moore—widely known as The Heart Architect—is a nationally recognized relationship and intimacy coach, speaker, and educator transforming how we approach connection, communication, and conflict. 

As the Founder and Chief Relationship Officer of Attuned Relationship Coaching, she helps individuals, couples, and families feel safe, seen, and supported in their most important relationships. Deondra is the creator of the Relationship Repair Blueprint, the Harmony Triangle, and the Six Pillars of Intimacy, three powerful frameworks that guide her trauma-informed, emotionally intelligent coaching. Her work centers relational health as a core life skill, blending lived experience, practical tools, and cultural awareness to help people build sustainable intimacy—not just in romance, but across every connection that matters.

She’s the author of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: Building Lasting Connections in Relationships and host of the digital series Heart Hacks, where she offers no-nonsense, heart-centered insights on modern love and relational growth. Whether guiding a couple through repair or teaching teens about emotional safety and boundaries, her message remains the same: intimacy isn’t a mystery—it’s a skillset.

From classrooms to conferences, therapy rooms to town halls, Deondra is passionate about bringing relational education to the forefront. Her approach is warm, wise, and radically empowering—because everyone deserves relationships that are not just surviving, but thriving.